One song I particularly enjoy is John Lennon’s “Watching the Wheels,” in which he sings about his self-removal from the world spotlight in the latter half of the 70s. Several lines of the song relay the overall response he received from people who thought that “surely you’re not happy now,” given the level of fame and attention he received as a Beatle and independent artist up to that point and was subsequently giving up. The idea that a person could be happy out of the rat race, regardless of their level of success, is definitely foreign to some people.
I’m not interested in leaving the race at the moment – although I think the running division I’m in is fairly moderate to begin with – but there’s definitely something to be said for slowing down at regular intervals to rest and reflect, as many people will be doing this week for the Thanksgiving holiday. This opportunity to simply watch the wheels is more restorative to one’s well-being than most people would give it credit for. Much has been written about the psychological benefits of giving thanks, not just at holidays but on a daily basis. The reality, however, is that few of us actually do that, and instead we simply keep our noses to the grindstone to scratch off the next item on a never-ending to-do list.
I’ve found over the past year that the evenings that I allow myself time to unwind quietly without outside distractions, as opposed to working right up until bedtime or watching TV until I fall asleep, are those that are most relaxing and rejuvenating. These are the times that I let my mind release the details of the daily grind and wander to other things, and the times in which I sometimes think about and appreciate my life’s good fortune. Here’s to some extra time this week to do just that.

